I hate eating.

This sounds AWFUL OP!

I'm too tired to write properly now but there are ways you can approach this problem.

Definitely look into mast cell activation problems (part of EDS symptom spectrum) or true allergies as others have suggested here.

A speech pathologist can help you work on swallowing issues.

I use (Please insert non evil brand here) Sustagen DIABETIC for liquid nutrition as it's low GI; if I use normal hospital grade I get problems with reactive hypoglycemia/run to the toilet, feel shit and drained.

This video provides excellent information on digestive issues in EDS and also recommends a diet protocol.

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