As much as people hurt us, they seldomly face consequences. My ex, ended a 8 year relationship and started banging the greasyest goth guy imaginable.

So two years later, she is now covered in tattoos, piercings and makeup. This is not the same person I met 10 years ago. Things worked out for her. Just got to just do whatever she wanted.

Meanwhile, as a guy, I got to experience being single and dating in my 30s. What a horrid experience this has been. The dating scene is shallow, selfish, and full of vapid people.

The point is that she'll never experience the heartbreak that her level of abandonment wrought. After I moved out, her parents replaced everything I took. Nothing bad happened. She wasn't sad or anything and never will be.