In order for any of this bar-stool, self-righteous boot-strappy right wing nonsense to be true, you need to first prove she was intentionally making bad choices knowing the results would be bad for her.

AGAIN, we all do our best to make the best choices for us in any given moment and this rear-view mirror judgmental nonsense is useless to everybody except you who thinks yourself wise for saying it.

You really need to stop thinking peoples lives are so singular and one dimensional. As much as you would live to believe life is just "Choose A - get B" because abstract ideas and nuance is foreign to you, I'm here to tell you, it's not. And grinding someone down even further for something that is obviously PPD is dangerous.

Go back to objectifying women on some other sub.