I Hate My S.O.

No. Now. There has to be someone you can go to. In my country. If you described this to someone from the authorities, he would be taken away. Get in contact with a lawyer. Form the exit-strategy now. If he isnt the farher he should have no claim to custody. Is it possible to send your kid to his dad while you run the other way? Get your kid out the way so it can be dealt with between adults?

Im sure he doesnt know everything. There must be someone you can turn to, he doesnt know about. A distant cousin, a friend from back in the day.

I dont think you can get your wish. Your description of the man paints him as a control-monster with anger-issues. He can never let you leave, that would prove to him you have more control over you than he does, and he cant have that and he doesnt want to leave because he has it 'easy' and 'the way he thinks its right' in his world. You leaving would be a threat to his illusions of what his life is. Get him drunk and knocked out, pack a car and leave while he sleeps it off. Get a headstart by several hours and get to safety. Inform a lawyer of all this and get a will if anything happens to you, you need to have a way to get the truth out. Do you proof or document of abuse? Photo, audio, text, anything? Even if he is under the blue shield hr is still just a flawed man, and evidence is still evidence.

Does he have anything incriminating on you? It kinda sounds like he does

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