I have no intention of invalidating your points ... but it is not a "Today" thing. It was always like this. ... Well at least since the 60s ...

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Previously women had no way to make a living on their own, so they had to pledge themselves at a young age to whichever of the guys interested in them that looked like the best provider .. and before that your parents would marry you off in exchange for a price bull.

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You do you ... There is nothing wrong with you .. But it's about you doing you and not about other people being wrong in this age compared to previously. That part the same as it's been for a lifetime and better then it was before that