I'm not a member of this sub so you can take my post with salt, but I am trans and I can say there's a few sides to this.

The end goal of transitioning for some people is so that they can be happy with their bodies away from their assigned gender at birth. This might include things like HRT or surgeries, or none because for some people being accepted as what they identify with is enough

For others being trans means they want to fully pass as a cis person of what gender they respectively were not born as. This means fully going through with HRT or surgeries.

There are a lot of perspectives in the community and the best you can do is just ask around taking the responses with salt and forming your own opinion.

Hope this helped