He [32M] texts, calls, FaceTimes with his ex [3OF] constantly and also wants me [23F] to be involved in this obsessive behavior.

Giiiiiirl, honestly, the uneasiness is a big tell tale that something is up. I don't mean to be negative or make you feel insecure but I know how shitty it feels when an ex is in the picture. My BF stayed in touch with his ex when we first began seeing eachother, he'd help her with her CV and they'd message eachother here and there. I know this isn't much but it drove me crazy! I was totally honest and told him I didn't like it, it made me feel insecure as I knew he had a hard time 'trying to get over her.' I just didn't want to be second best and it seems your feeling that way too. After I explained my feels, he stopped speaking to her, he doesnt even have a phone anymore and part of me thinks he doesnt want one so he doesnt have to see/ignore messages from her. You aren't being old school or in the wrong at all, in my opinion. It can be so damaging to ones self esteem!

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