It was a bloodbath. My seemingly very innocent wife went from normal to running off with my kids and sleeping with a giant bouncer from a local club. They were fooling around for a few months I believe. Unfortunately I know details because she broke out in herpes 5 months after we separated and had any sexual contact, and then tried to blame me for it, just to find out by third party she had accompanied this giant bouncer piece of shit to the doctor to get him tested. Results unconfirmed. But I hadn't gone down on her in almost 2 years and I only get cold sores very occasionally. Sounds convenient but 5 months after any sexual contact? Please. She got what was coming to her. If he was cheating with you just get the fuck out seriously, like there's no point. You're done. You can probably find someone way better and just be lucky you didn't fucked that bad.