He lost feelings and didn’t give us a chance to fix it

I’m going through the same. After 12 years he got an opportunity to leave the relationship and he took it. He is not even interested in trying to work through it and said he has felt this way for years.Said he loves me but not in love with me. Also said his head wants a relationship but his heart doesn’t at this time and if he’s going to have a relationship it will only be with me. We have to live together too for financial reasons as we just bought our first house for a while and it’s awful basically going from being together like I mean nothing to him. I also have a feeling he is seeing someone else already and it’s killing me how easy he seems to have moved on while I am left devastated

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