In what ways am I “punishing him”..? I’m not doing anything on purpose to cause an issue. I’m not punishing him AT ALL. That doesn’t even make sense here. I’m just stating how I feel and what I saw, and asking if this was a glitch or what. He has a laptop but he never uses it, he just uses his phone.
You have not walked in my shoes to understand what I’ve been through, you have no idea. So to pin me by saying I’m “punishing him” and going to “exasperate him” is really extreme and harsh. I have every right to feel how I do because NO man has been genuine or honest. And I’ve dated more than all of my friends. Guys I meet and (my friends meet) don’t want to commit and they have all played games with us. Hardly anyone, even friends lately, haven’t been trustworthy.
I’m not devaluing the relationship. None of my relationships last long so it’s always around this time a guy lies and pulls away so I get scared because it literally repeats in this way, every time. My new boyfriend has shown he’s understanding but I’m still scared of being randomly abandoned for zero reason like I have in the past. The last guy I dated for 2 months and got into a relationship with he randomly broke up with me and says the last 2 weeks he had indifferent feelings but still had sex with me and said he planned to breakup but didn’t for 2 weeks he strung me along. He pulled back on the superbowl evening, went completely MIA. Didn’t apologize and the next day we were talking more about our trip we had planned and he says he’d make me breakfast. Then boom the next morning he ended it and I was beyond confused. I have reasons as to WHY I feel the way I do. Nothing can fix that except someone who is ACTUALLY trustworthy and honest and I d NEVER had that. Understand me now?