ok, thanks. I guess I don't get why it's something he thinks I should be embarrassed about. It's like pouring salt into the wound of him rejecting me. Like, the way he is going on it makes me think he secretly hated me this whole time and now this is his revenge. this isn't normal to me. I've been rejected before. I've had a one night stand before. never have I ever had anyone act like this.

Now that I see what he's up to... i can try to avoid him. I'll be honest. i naively thought he would be kinder to me. Like I was respectful of him, and I just am still surprised that he's going out of his way to try to make me feel some type of way about this. It also doesn't escape my attention that he's the one who ended things but he's the one still bothering ME. in my experience when i've been rejected the guy leaves me alone because they truly aren't interested in me. they don't care. with him it's like why are you still even bringing it up, weirdo