Okay here goes, and bring on the downvotes (just kidding though). Facially ugly; objectively or subjectively (i.e. do you find yourself facially ugly or do you have any evidence of your "facial ugliness". If you do (like someone told you that you were ugly, like a girl you were interested in, would you be interested in her if she told you that she wasn't interested in you?. The few guys I've met and discussed this with have all told me that they wouldn't want to have sex with a girl/woman that wasn't "into" it. If you are a virgin then feel free to skip this step.

As of the lack of alpha personality, there are some pretty useful youtube videos you might want to check out. On the other hand, not all girls/women are attracted to this whole "alpha male" stereotype. And I am not just talking about all the girls you here at /r/incel like to call, what, fat something whale something. If they are hard to find, it doesn't mean that they don't exist. On the other hand, you might have to come to terms with the fact that no one is perfect, including yourself.