To hell with the pastor's wife!!!

I had a situation like this where the clergy wife tried to be condescending. I said that something like "It is you and your pretentiousness and nosiness that is the problem with your church. That's why people leave because of you. You are the problem for your church and not me. You personally ruin the experience of seeking God for most people that attend and not me. I and others always felt that your pretence is insulting to God and those that wish to experience him. I don't know if you've also realised this or not but you are a hypocrite much of the time. You only treat certain people well or fairly and dismiss others. A lot of your behaviour borders on blasphemy. I mean you speak in church loudly and crudely for attention and even now you are trying to have authority over me which is forbidden by God. Women have no authority to speak of God, which makes me wonder if you have ever even read your bible. Even now you are sort of Blaspheming in your condemnation of me and it makes you look very lowly in the eyes of God and to me as a witness to your behaviour deeply uncomfortable. I think you need to remove the plank from your own eye before you start looking at the splinter in mine and anybody else's". And on and on I went, BUT, I always kept it within the confines of religious speak as it were. I was very insulting and brutally honest but put it into the perspective of what would God think and using biblical "Pay-offs". This women was deeply deeply offended and upset. But, what the hell could she do or say because she had betrayed her own ideal/belief system with her own ego mania lol! In truth she was a loud mouth wanting to share in the glories of her husbands position. The key= Use religious speak back to them and you can pretty much say what you want and tell your honest opinion of their character. They won't like it and may well go into a depression but that is their own fault. BUT, You will feel much better!

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