HELP: I am terrible in bed.

once a week for a year.

Thats not normal at 19 unless you’re long distance.

my tummy is flabby.

Abs are made in the kitchen, not in the gym.

couldn’t figure out HOW to ride him.

Communicate and listen, both of you.

wow this girl is cool but so bad in bed...

It’s tougher to find a great person than to find a great lover. Everyone can be trained to be good at sex. If you two get along when you’re not naked, work together to improve the sex. I’ve been there where the sex drastically improved.

trying to ride a dildo

This is good, just practice more. He can’t please you until YOU can please you.

Tell him you want to be on top to get more practice. Tell him you want to blow him more to get more practice.

Trust me, he won’t mind.

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