Help... how the heck do I keep it above board

If YOU only swipe on max 2 women per week because you are actually properly reading and are into them, that’s great.

That is not what I said. I said that I'm a well put together man that has his shit in place and would love a relationship. But that ONLY earns me AT BEST 2 swipes a week. In a European capitol .. We're not talking small village here :)

There is no demand for me .. simple as that. Btw .. I don't swipe. Too lazy, I don't mind paying those whatever it cost for tinder to just show me who the rare women that shows interest in me is

But back to my first comment .. The core of it is the following:

Probably mostly because I’m not attracted.

That is you and every single other woman on OLD .. and I have no problem with that actually ... You do YOU!

But what happen is that each and every one of you swipe on only that 1 out of 99 men (cause he is the only one that you're attracted to) and thus you end with a guy that doesn't give a fuck whether you live of die as he as 98 other women that are interested too .. and thus he goes "Wanna smash?" right of the bat.

I honestly don't care whether it's the large supply of men that makes you swipe very narrowly or simply cause "you're not attracted"

End of day the result is the same. You and every single other woman chase the same few men and after which you come here and complain that all they offer is sex.

You want a relationship, come here .. I'll gladly investigate if we're compatible or not. Maybe we are and maybe we're not?

The thing is just .. That you're not attracted. That is fine. I totally respect that.

Just don't give me bullshit about my problem is that I see women as vaginas :)

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