Help me understand the mindset of always-been-overweight people with an underweight GW?

1) I’ve been fat all my life, I don’t want to go back ever. I won’t feel safe until I’m underweight 2) I feel like because I’m Asian and we have less bone mass I HAVE to be underweight or I won’t be truly thin. I’m going back to China next summer and last time I visited my family there I was overweight and got nagged about my size. whenever I imagine going back but sickly thin this time my petty side goes crazy

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