Help! Unprofessional???

Yikes! Hurt my brain last nite trying to think what this could be... Although I've never been rude, unprofessional, threatening, etc. to anyone in any capacity, I thought of 3 incidents:

1.) Interaction w/call support last week. Rep's English super poor; didn't address my question. Read from script instead. It was terrible.

I wasn't rude/angry but once it was clear he couldn't help, I politely ended the call. Was this misconstrued as rudeness? The call could be reviewed & would prove I was fine.

2.) Uncertain, I posted in our local FB group asking, "Hey, has anyone ever shopped 123 Rural Rd.? It's a prepaid, 45 minutes roundtrip. Are they worth it?". Was this perceived as negative or unprofessional and reported?

3.) Last week, shopping at store privately (took no orders that day). Interacted w/store director. I was friendly & polite; he was not. Seemed clear I annoyed him. He wasn't nice. So I apologized for bothering him, thanked him for his help, walked away, left the store.

My actions/words/volume were perfect. My tone communicated I'd found him less-than-helpful b/c that was the truth. I can't say anything, can't complain to corporate. He's my husband's boss.

Later, DH approached by boss, wide-eyed, asked, "Did I do something to your wife???".

Boss told version wherein he's friendly & nice & offered to help - but for some strange reason I rejected it & acted offended. Played it like I was an irrational female.

Diplomatically, DH played dumb. But I'd been on the phone w/DH during the encounter; he heard the whole thing & knew who version was accurate.

Could he have assumed I was on a shop and complained???

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