Help With Lots of Advice, Please? (Girl Advice)

1+2: First you need to accept the reality of the situation, then you need to give it time and space. You can't help the people you are drawn towards, so you either have to convince yourself that this is just one girl or take the steps to get what you want. For most guys it's simple. Ask a girl out, she either says yes and you see how it goes or she says no and you applaud yourself for giving it your best shot and then accept it's not meant to be. If you can get to that point then you just minimize contact with the person as much as possible (avoid unnecessary conversations, don't flirt, no facebook stalking, etc.) and just give it time until it gets better.

3: Possibly a loaded question. You're still young, so probably still finding yourself. You need to confident and happy with the person you are because you shouldn't be defined by one relationship. You need to be genuine so when you find someone you get along well with it's because of you being you, not you pretending to be something you're not. How to generally be appealing: Work out, dress well, learn to socialize, have hobbies, and be motivated in life.

4: Look to adopt from your local shelter.

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