Help with wording my ideas about $/commitment with potential SDs?

you sound sweet and you have a good head for this stuff. Your two examples seem fine. You will figure it out.

I think it's perfectly acceptable to be open and vulnerable if new to this and tell him so. Either way the SD will be able to tell you are new to it, but being open about it is I think a good thing.

I know this is an unpopular opinion on here where everyone is an expert. But in my experience sugar is not a negotiation but a discussion. Two adults who like and respect each other need to flip a switch a pause the flirting and romantic and coy efforts for a few minutes to have a serious adult talk about money and expectations. Once an agreement is reached, we can return to the dating/relationship vibes and it's all good.

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