I feel for you, it is like she is playing a game with your heart. Does she ever apologize for when she says things that hurt you, or is this all one-sided? I spent a very long time in a relationship with a Virgo man who would do the same thing you are describing. He did not trust me, even though I was completely dedicated to our relationship. When we fought, I would always end up having to apologize, even if I hadn’t really done anything wrong. It was never enough. We loved each other a lot, but I got tired of fighting and apologizing because he did not trust me.

You have to ask yourself whether or not it’s worth it to keep pursuing her, knowing that she still doesn’t trust you when you are trying to come across the globe to be with her. If I were in your position, I would let her go. If she can’t trust you then she shouldn’t be with you, trust and communication make up the foundation of any relationship. That goes for anyone, but especially for Scorpios.

If you still truly want to be with her, give her space but leave that line of communication open. Take things slowly, like just a good morning text or good night. Something to let her know you are still thinking about her. Hopefully she will come around after a little bit of time. Then you can try to have an open and honest discussion about why she can’t trust you and what you can do to build trust with her. Try not to be defensive, use “I feel” statements (I feel very angry and that it is unfair when you compare me to your ex, for example). Remember to think about it from her perspective, too. She is coming from a place of hurt when she does this.