One of my resolution for this year : stop to watch porn and hentai (saying that "it's not the same" is absolutly stupid, the result is the same : you watch people having sex, no matter how wholesome it is). I watch porn and hentai since I'm 12 or 13 yo (I'm 18), I have tried to get rid of this addiction for years, so many many times and I've never been able to resist the urge more than 2 or 3 weeks.
This year, I asked my crush to go out, and she agreed because she was loving me too. I was deeply in love, but couldn't resist to masturbate, not even on picture of her, on porn and hentai, because I wasn't able to get horny enough when loooking at her and imagninating things with her, and thought that it wasn't a big deal, that I will get harder than rock in real life when I would be able to touch her. Guess what ? I was unable to get myself hard, even if the days before I was ultra hard in front of some hentai. We were naked, her bodies against mine, kissing and touching, etc... You know what, I even thought at a moment "oh, that's kinda boring" and then proceed to remember that hentai I was masturbating to try to get hard. Just to think about that I disgust myself on so many levels... We broke up some weeks after, for other reasons, and I didn't get another chance to do it with her.
Because of watching porn I've literaly missed my first time, with my first love. I was so deep in love with her and she was really beautiful, but it wasn't enough... I miss the time where just seeing boobs was enough to be horny as hell, now it doesn't even affect me. I've never been so depressed in my life, but I know I need to overcome this failure, I need to overcome my addiction and go forward.
It's not about stopping to masturbate no, masturbation is healthy, but we associate porn/hentai to masturbation and cannot seperate this two, and this is not healthy. Being able to masturbate without looking at sexual content is the solution I think. And the less you watch sexual things, the less you feel the urge to fap. Just masturbate when you feel your body scream you to do it, and without watching porn (or remembering porn, that's the same).
I watch far less anime than before, why ? Even if lot of people doesn't want to admit it, the majority of today's animes have sexy things, even if they're not ecchi anime. Seeing some big anime tiddies just make you lose control and make you think "that's not a big deal, 1 time more or less, doesn't change anything" and then you fall again in addiction.
If you try to get rid of this shit, don't blame yourself too much when you fail, this is our pathetic moments wich make us desir to be great, you fall and stand up again and again until the day you manage to succeed. There is no magical way, this is hard and it take time, but don't mess up your sexuality with that anymore, find things to do insteed, move your ass, get into new hobbys, whatever you want that keep you focus and keep you away from masturbation.
Last thing, getting rid of fap-addiction is not a miracle solution to all your problems in life. You life will be better, but there's many things to change if you aren't happy, getting out of addictions is the first thing to do.
Sorry for my english btw