sorry I was only talking about doms. Not dommes. But then again I suppose there are many men out there who are sensitive enough to feel that way. Overall you made your point and I agree. I suppose I was broadly generalizing.

However I just bring up my point because generally speaking guys feel differently than girls. They might feel the same emotions, but the difference is about “what”.

Like It’s hard to imagine that many guys feel “used” in the way OP describes. The type of used I see that guys tend to complain about is being financially used or emotionally. Not sexually (hell plenty of guys would get off on that and I’m not even talking about the kinky ones).

but again that’s me speaking broadly. If you are a guy who does feel this way, then that’s okay! It’s valid. Just uncommon. Like I personally would never feel like a “piece of meat”. But again I’m just in the majority.