Thank you. As I said before its hard for me to open up. You are the 5th person I've done it with. The 4th was the author of the kink story I linked you, the other 3 are members of a fansite I've been talking with for years. You are the first fellow Canadian I've talked with. I can write all these thoughts but theirs a mental block between my brain and vocal cords for some reason. Its something I'll have to work on.
Its true I don't really want someone that shallow. Read the INFJ romance page, it literally says relationships with INFJs are not for the uncommitted or shallow. Though it gets frustrating. Even without the disability I ultimately don't think I could go through with a hookup but I envy how simple it seems for others.
On top of this...I unfortunately have an uncle with a criminal record older then me, much of it involving abuse of women. He's not the type to try and find just one woman either. Haven't seen him in years, and I was a teenager when I learned what he was really like, but seeing him go to woman to woman with seeming ease while I was written off as Walker Freak was difficult. I took me a while to understand the difference between hurt and harm in BDSM context. Luckily pain is not one of my kinks and if it were my SOs I have an idea of how I would handle it. And he's only one family member I have to put up with. I'm 99% sure if you or a girls said "I have a crazy family..." I can top you with just my mother or father's relatives, I've got stories on both sides.
Interesting that you and Georgia met online. If I may ask, what site? I've heard conflicting things about how to address the CP for that. I can hide it in just a head shot but any pics of me standing or video will give it away. Sounds like she hid hers until she liked you. Some say that'll get more responses but suck if the person pulls back when you tell them. Others say be upfront about it but you'll get less responses and you've gotta be careful not to let it be the defining thing-Its more a problem for women but Fascination Fucks and people who otherwise think they can take advantage of us are a concern.
What level of teaching/subject do you want to get into? Since you're Canadian too, what is the big city you are talking about? Maybe we're closer then we think!
How involved in BDSM are you? How/when do you plan on telling Georgia? I know disability stuff, but my kinky side has not been shared with anyone yet. You can avoid details but are you just bedroom only? Go to munches? If you've gone to a play party, what generally goes on? I know it varies by location but we're both Canadian so it might be similar in my area.