I think the problem most men have is with the extremely vocal feminists representing everything anti men. The feminists who shame men for sexualization of women, blindly ignoring the sexualization of men happening right next to it. And then blaming that sexualization for women feeling the need to show off or dress/act a certain way for men, without analyzing the issue seriously and identifying all the root causes for this phenomenon.

Not even sexualization in particular, but any other equality issue. There is a plethora of both men and women out there shaming eachother and spouting uninformed nonsense that makes others feel under attack, making them indifferent to the cause.

Everyone needs to stop criticizing eachother, enforcing their biases, and start working together and building something positive, by educating eachother and that all starts with educating yourself.

Another example is the gender wage gap. We alllllllllll know it exists and is a problem. But its also horrendously over exaggerated by both sides, and the fact is there will ALWAYS be a gender wage gap, its not possible to have it perfectly balanced. A certain amount of the wage gap is explained away by women who retire early for their families, take maternity leaves, and some women take the easier jobs in the finance industry for example, because they prioritize their mental health and free time more than the guys 10 floors above them who literally live to sell stocks and have no interest in anything else in life.

On all fronts of feminism there are men and women with biases and people with biases tend to be very vocal about them, so the public responds a bit more to them.

So instead of saying men should stop reverse feminism maybe you should say we should all take a little more time to conduct serious research on topics we're interested in and study both sides to every topic. Then we can come to an informed decision and take effective actions to resolve real issues.