I have a final comment if I may.

When we are small children it is the job of mum and dad to introduce us to the harsh reality of the world, it is their job to help us understand the brutality of friend making and socialization, to explain the rules of life and to help us develop boundaries which protect us from the bad things.

The ultimate goal is to help the child develop some boundaries in life.

Boundaries are a set of rule which we live our life by, they are based on our moral value framework. Which in simple terms is the rules we live our life by.

Boundaries should be easy to understand and articulated to everyone we meet. There is a one strike policy with boundaries. If someone crosses them they are fucking gone! no second chances.

This is an area you should focus on with your psychologist.

You should be working with them to define your list of "fuck yes" and "fuck no" rules.

Always remember this. People who love you don't want to hurt you, and people who hurt you don't love you.

This is new information and I get that. But........you are gonna do great things in this country and your first step is to learn the word 'No'.