I just had this conversation with him on the phone a little bit ago. At first he was all defensive about it but I just kept calm and explained my feelings the best I could. He reiterated that he just chats for fun and it means nothing when it comes to us. I told him going on a dating site means he's looking for a relationship as his profile says or he's leading the women on that he's flirting with. He says most on there just want to chat and blah blah blah. I had asked him if he would consider going off it for a couple weeks and see how he feels.. I really think it's an addiction issue which only he can do something about.. and so when we talked he eventually goes "I'll take my pictures down. I'm still gonna chat but I can do that.." And I'm like Um okay? If you want to? lol.. I don't know. i told him I don't want to be an idiot and he just keeps saying he's not doing anything wrong. He definitely has some trust issues.. as in expecting me to trust that he's not playing me because he knows he's not.