If this was me trying to CANCEL someone, I would have blasted your name all over this forum. I hate cancel culture as much as you, and that is why I haven't tried to smear you all over the internet.

and I didn't address it in the moment for a multitude of reasons

1: I was seething under the surface and didn't trust my self-control. I don't want to go to jail or fight a black belt if I don't have to.

2: At the time I thought she brushed it off well, though later not only did K-- apologize for you, but my wife told me that she wasn't comfortable around you. That's why she wouldn't train with us in F-- M-. The things you said were pretty bad, and you know it.

3: I truly did respect the lineage and opportunity as I am in Jiu-jitsu for the LONG haul. I want to study each style. Learn all perspectives, and the lineage at your school is rare and prestigious. Those words were bad, but a price to pay to learn from a skilled but perverse hypocrite. However, the last straw for me was my knee-jerk expulsion without any dialogue with me to clarify my intent.

And now you are twisting up details you aren't even fully clear on to destroy my character ad-hominem style. I will give you this advice: Don't go to battle against the Truth.