Honestly I'm not one who usually makes these kinds of post, and some of ya'll might disagree so HOT TAKE

Hell yeah dude, I got to college and got a home now, like Im straight up chilling.

But I just got into an interaction that sorta brought all these memories back which is why I made this hecking long rant post.

Its common for abusers (maybe a strong word but you get my feel) to use these tactics as a way of manipulation, they put on a good face for the outside world so everyone sees them as this really good person. But whilst doing that, they end up pushing you down and disrespecting you. Its manipulation and its not right. So like any young teen right now, and even just anyone in general. If someone is being kind to you but it feels off because of any of the reasons listed on this post/comments, what you're feeling is VALID, and what they doing it isnt right.

/r/teenagers Thread Parent