Honestly what can you even do with an ugly face its so depressing you almost have to laugh

That just means that you weren't their type. So a handful of women don't find you "hot". Brush it off and keep looking. One person's 0 can be another person's 10. I can practically hear you rolling your eyes and scoffing, but it's true. If you can bother to look him up, search Daniel Henney. My best friend is in love with him, says he's the best looking man to have ever lived. I think his face is bland, bordering slightly on sleazy, and he has the charisma of a soggy cardboard box. If you can further bother to do so, look up Yoo Jae-suk. He's a Korean celebrity who was once voted by women in a national poll as the ugliest male celebrity. Conversely, he was also voted the #1 celebrity that women wanted to marry.

A lot of it is how you market and carry yourself, which is why it's so difficult, not to mention unfair, to discern attractiveness through one or two photographs. If you want to boost your "rating" in people's eyes, take care of yourself the best you can, be passionate about things, work hard at your job, be kind and humble. It's about the entire package as a person, not just the face.

I hope I don't come off as patronizing or whatever, it's just that I understand your thought process all too well. When I say I hated my face, I'm not joking. When I was attempting suicide because I was so lonely and depressed, I even wrote down on my note asking my parents to pour acid over my face, because I couldn't stand the thought of keeping that ugly mug in the afterlife. It was a huge struggle trying to change that mentality. I hope you don't see yourself as unlovable and not worthy to be loved just because you haven't found someone yet.

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