Honesty FTW! Saving us both some time! Why can't more guys be like this guy?

Why? Because it doesnt work ;) Reason is very simple - there are MUCH more men looking for casual sex than women, so women who only look for sex can (and often do) punch above their league lookswise.

I dated couple really beautiful women, and had my fair share of hookups, but I swear god - its impossible to hookup with (decent looking!) woman from online dating if you are this upfront and mention you just look for fun at beginning. Just no way you can pull this off, unless you are literally Brad Pitt.

The second I mention in my profile I just look for something casual - and I am not bad looking at all - number of my matches hits the rock bottom and suddenly I become invisible for women. I get no replies or messages only from really unattractive women (far below my league, who I am not interested sleeping with).

But when I dont mention it, I do ok. And thats why guys are not upfront about it ;)

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