The hope of obtaining a young, beautiful virgin women to marry and be with forever is every bit as unrealistic as the "find your hero and live happily ever after" Disney fairytale sold to girls.

I argue that your experience clearly informs your opinion. This is not something an unmarried virgin would say. This is not an attack on you. I’m saying this is an opinion based on your experience. Nothing I say is meant to shame or offend. If you want to be a sex worker, that is your prerogative. If you want to remain a virgin, that is also your prerogative, good for you.

Within my group, there are unmarried virgins than people who’ve had sex before marriage. These people can control their urges and they are mentally tough. So from my perspective, this is not a fantasy.

To desire an unmarried virgin is to desire the ideal. Just as someone desires to look like a Greek sculpture or some form or great physique or even great health when they go to gym.

A prudent man wants a virgin who is a good, virtuous person, or at worst, a woman who isn’t promiscuous. You never see unmarried virgin women in bars or clubs, doing drugs, or living wanton, disordered lives. They tend to be good, virtuous women. Only a desperate man or a man who is also a slave to his vices would go for a woman like that.

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