How do I (24M) fall back in love with my wife (24F)

I have no relationship experience but I read this in a book lol:

Get a journal or something you can write in and everyday try to write something that you admire about your wife. For example if you like the way she looks in the morning, right it down in your journal how beautiful you think she is in the morning, if you see her do something selfless write down how much you love her selflessness, etc. You can write whatever you want, as long as your focusing on her positive qualities

This does 2 things: 1. Gives you a great gift you can give her on her birthday, aka a journal of things you love about her. 2. Helps you focus on and look for her positive qualities rather than her negative ones, which will cause you to love her more than you ever thought possible

Lol idk if this works cause again I read it in a book and I have no relationship experience but it seems legit. I wish you the best of luck!

Also I though I’d insert some of my own thoughts: Remember back to what you used to do with her and the stuff you would do for her. For example you used to buy her chocolates or flowers when you would see her, or you would tell her she looked beautiful and kiss her unprompted, etc, force yourself to do more of the things you would do when you were “obsessed” with her, since this will reignite your obsession. People think you get “feelings of love” which translate to “lovey dovey actions” BUT you can also do it the other way where “actions” translate to “feelings”. Idk if that made any sense, but again good luck!

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