how to get across to my partner that im a one women man.

You’re never gonna win this one, so you might as well give up. Once you confessed to finding this woman attractive in the past, you opened up a fear in your wife that can’t be unopened, even if her concerns have no merit. You have to let it go: Give up playing video games with ur friend’s wife, even if you resent it; otherwise, your own wife’s accusations and passive aggressive behavior will likely continue. Obviously you can’t and shouldn’t quit your friend of many years, and of course that needs to be made clear to ur wife, but you can no longer do anything one on one with your friend’s wife, if only to keep the peace in ur own home.

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