How America tells me and other Asian American men we’re not attractive

Well, Asian men are the least likely to deal with the consequences of modern Western society such as getting divorced and coping with STDs and baby mommas. Also Asian men are more likely to have stable marriages, less crazy or trashy partners, have a higher quality dating pool (of people who aren’t crazy or trashy), and have better upward mobility.

Like, to be honest, do you REALLY want to be like “the rest of society”? I’ve seen the type of drama that other races of men often find themselves in, and in my experience and opinion, Asian men are the least likely to cause drama or attract drama. The type of people who go on tinder and dating websites are often low calibre types who are on tinder for a reason, I wouldn’t count their opinions seriously. You’re really not missing out on much.

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