How do I approach partners denial of pain during sex?

I’m surprised he FOUND the clit. That took his last brain cell apparently. After reading all this, he deserves….pinch his balls and tell him to relax it doesn’t hurt.

Obviously he is not good at sex. His inability to accept gentle guidance results in anger, followed by what looks like a pep talk for his ego but under the guise of listing his positive reviews.

He does sound like he enjoys inflicting pain. It doesn’t matter at this point if he thinks you’re lying or doesn’t believe in the science of pain censors.

He’s the kind that if he ever bought a windowless van , following extensive installations, you watch closely.

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