How are you?

I am good. If I recap it all, then it took a while to get here.

My ex-wife and I co-parent and there's lots of therapy for all parties involved. I saw her briefly during one kid-exchange at beginning of summer so that the dogs from both sides of my kids family could meet. (I've got them for the summer and my dog is "in charge" at my house so it's best to do neutral ground first) That was fine and brief. My kid's relationship with the mom has grown sour in some regards. Kid knows all about the mental health issues by their own research and snooping. Wanted to know why it was all secret squirrel.

I got married some time ago to someone that I thought was much more stable but shortly into the marriage, they uh....walked away. It really crushed me but that's well over a year now. And when I say walked away, we were having a tiff on Tuesday and talking about a new house, etc. On Thursday, they came by my house and picked up a laptop and "accidentally" took my iPhone and I never heard from them again. I called and emailed a few times. Nothing.

Back into creative projects at this point and life is starting to re-stabilize. Lots of therapy the last year or so. It does get better. I was divorced from the first ex-wife in 2009 and had legal shenanigans galore until roughly 2013. Then it just came to a full stop. Since then, in spite of the possibility/likelihood of having a second ex-wife, it's been fine, if a little draining at times. I feel weird even typing that out.

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