Unwilling to help extricate someone from a situation they created themselves, holding people to their commitments when they say they are going to do something or be somewhere, expecting a job to be completed before paying-not 95% done or "only need this one thing yet". Expecting my calls to be returned in a timely manner when there's business involved. Noticing and calling out those that are trying to take advantage of me in some way. Refusing to loan people money. Refusing to loan my car or tools or other things when people have a poor record of taking care of stuff. Insisting you return the vehicle with the same amount of gas in it that it had when you got it. Just because I have something and am not using it doesn't mean I should automatically be willing to give it or loan it to you. The fact that you didn't plan for something does not mean I now have to suddenly run around and help you. Your inability to come up with anything interesting to say does not mean I need to sit here and be bored to death with your nonsense.