3. How are you certain of your sexual orientation?

How are you certain of your sexual orientation?

Im like 90-95% into women and then a few men im like attracted to but it would take a strong connection w a man before i could ever even think about having sex w him. I feel like im aesthetically attracted to men, being a masculine leaning woman, i like their clothing, hairstyles, etc. But i dont want them to be naked. I prefer curves and softness, a woman's voice, giggle, and just overall presence and company.

I have slept w men but it's been like we know each other well, i love him as a person, and he's got an attractive face type deal. I think in the moment of being intimate if whoever it is is pleasing you well then it's enjoyable just based on physical sensation. But ive always had this issue w like after sex, i feel turned off by who I'm looking at and laying next to. Not because they havent been wonderful and handsome guys and not bc sex was bad but im just not into mens bodies. If i love the person enough i could sleep w him and sometimes maybe even wanna cuddle him (but only if he at least put some pants on afterwards or the lights are off) bc of this i feel like no matter how much i love and care for a person i shouldnt pursue a long term relationship w a man bc it feels fucked up to love him but then also get turned off sometimes by looking at him and noticing masculine traits.

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