Standards are standards until they are re-evaluated and modified. I have never and will never ask any of my Amn to do something that I can't or won't do.

You're making a lot of assumptions with only a couple nuggets of knowledge and you speak emotionally and irrationally. Worse, it seems like you justify your inability to converse rationally by personally attacking others and using your Amn as a shield to hide your own inability to express your point in an effective manner.

Someone disagreeing with you is not a sign of defensiveness. If anything, personal attacks that bring nothing to the conversation but a distraction from the topic at hand show a defensive or irritated mindset. Judging from this conversation you still have a lot to learn and a long way to go.

You'll probably get there in the end. Assuming you don't chapter out from PT failures first.