First time around, and I couldn't figure out how they came up with it, my SO attempted to villian-ize me and make me sound like a jerk. Soon after, they tried to say I was lame in bed, and they need someone to "help out". I found the overly flirtatious texts when borrowing SOs phone to find mine. It didn't follow through though. I thought the relationship was going great. Literally nobody had any issues. Friends, family, even coworkers all got along with us.

Second time around was their birthday. I went out and spent as much as my account could handle on them, and SO went to dinner with their "friend". Didn't bother to tell me that SAME person they were sexting earlier was also there. I knew there was a reason why I wasn't invited. My SO LOVED to show me off. Didn't make sense why it suddenly stopped.

This time around, SO lied and continued playing the line until I caught them stumbling. I needed to go home early from the bar for an early shift and is naturally bummed from it. SO said they'll go home as well and text me all night. Nope. Stayed out with their friends all night. That wasn't the problem. You go play all you want, don't lie to me and continue lying for hours into the evening and suddenly shutting me off