How to avoid becoming a neckbeard?

I mean, bonus points for being open with being gay, because an actual neckbeard would probably be deep in denial and also very homophobic to show how "totally not gay they are, guys!".

Really, being a neckbeard is more about personality than anything. I've met people who fit the description to a T, yet i wouldn't classify them as neckbeards. Of course you should take care of your appearance and your hygiene, and if you have an unusual hobby (in your case being a furry) you probably shouldn't tell that to everyone you meet and make it the core part of your personality. Even if it's something that is very dear to you: try to find other ways to connect with people, and maybe you'll even gain some really cool talents and interests along the way. I used to be addicted to video games to the point of being all that i would talk about to everyone, all day. At some point i started trying out new things. I found out i really enjoyed reading books, and now i spend almost more time on my kindle than on games. I found that i really enjoy cooking, and painting - recently even finally bought an easel. The point here being: Try to find some hobbies if you have few, you might be surprised what you can find out about yourself!

But most important is probably this: Treat people like people. Not like objects or servants or children, but as people. Even if you think they don't deserve it. Even if you think you are morally above them (which, in 99% of cases, you just think you are). Treat everyone with respect, have a sense of humor, and be able to make fun of yourself every once in a while.

But honestly? I don't know you, but from what i can tell from your post, you're an alright guy. You don't seem like a neckbeard to me. Take care of your appearance, be friendly and not overbearing, and you're good to go.

TL;DR: Don't worry too much, just take good care of yourself and be civil to others.

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