How do I get it back?

I definitely have no intention of stopping breastfeeding so that my partner will maybe get more sex. I rounded up for simplicity’s sake but my son is not yet 2. Per the World Health Organization extended breastfeeding is highly beneficial to a child; very conservative numbers you cited. My son is a baby, my partner is a grown man. Honestly the prioritization of your husbands sex drive over all else is a little alarming to me. I am not his servant, and again, he is a grown man. If he is not pulling his weight with a baby in the house out of sheer petulance, he can fix that or we can split up. I will take being a single parent over attempting to fix issues with someone who responds to issues like a child.

Sorry if my response seems harsh, but your reply really offended me. I think being touched out plays a role, but I don’t think it would bother me as much if my partner acted like a partner to me. I’m not going to take something from my child to cater to my husbands needs, especially sexual ones. That is absurd.

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