How Can I (24M) Satisfy My Girlfriend's (27F) Masochism Fetish?

Agreed that you need to know exactly what she means.

If she's never brought it up with previous partners, then she's probably not aware of how much pain and what specific things are pleasurable in reality, and what stays pure fantasy.

It would be helpful for both of you if she could be explicit about what is entirely off limits, and give you more examples of things she thinks she'll like. Go slow with anything you try. You can always get rougher in the future when you both have a better idea of what she likes. If you're comfortable with dirty talk, sexuality is a large part mental for some people. It's a way you can get more comfortable with things before you start physically causing her pain.

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