How can a 30-ish no-op trans woman go about finding friends-with-benefits?

Yup most guys dont read profiles.

This is the rant I posted, that amazingly led to my new boyfriend.

I am so frustrated by ads looking for MtF Tg's to top. The majority are so insensitive that any real ("equipped") women would not debase themselves by answering. Also, the majority of women on Hormone replacement therepy (myself included) cannot achieve the nessasary firmness to engage in penetrative sex, and are repulsed by the idea. If you want to be pegged by a woman, then post that. If you want to be fucked by a man with tits, post that (we miss you leslie cochran!) If you just preffer a Tgwoman, post that.

" I want a passable Ts (no CDs) with real tits to fuck me" is damn near impossible. Passable is subjective. Difficult to achieve without 2+ years hrt Ts vs CD: I have lived over 10 years full time without HRT. I keep my breasts in a box beside the bed, what does that make me? Real tits: are implants real? How about my tiny, less then a full A cup? Fuck you? Why would I want to do that? Thats fag work. Are you gay? TG women are not gay men. We are the ones expecting to be fucked.

If you are SERIOUS about dating a woman with a queen sized clit. Then talk to us like women. If you are looking for an new experience to ad to you list of acomplishments, just dont. Our lives are difficult enough without insensitive assholes objectifing us as a sexual perversion (and having a girl fuck you in the ass is perverse).

Also, I am looking for a worthy boyfriend. If you agree with everything I have said, and feel you have what it takes, write me. I will reply to every email that makes an effort at communication. 1 liners and dic pics will be deleted without mercy.

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