It used to be once a week or twice every two weeks for us. It was a struggle cause I have a high sex drive myself and I was constantly being told no for sex and didn’t understand why until I found out he was watching porn. He thinks I shouldn’t worry about it because it’s something he has to deal with but when it affects our marriage it’s hard not to think about it. Even if it has nothing to do with me. But recently we’ve been having sex like 4-5 times a week. It’s been great but we still have our dry moments. It’s just hard knowing we both have high sex drives but he won’t have sex with me unless I get him in the mood. And he’ll never initiate if he is in the mood cause he wants me to make all the moves.