How can I [M20] compromise with my fiancé [M24]

Me [M20] and my fiancé [M24] have been together 11 months and lived together/cohabitated for 8 of those months. I

What's the rush exactly? 11 months in, you're still in the honeymoon period and barely know each other. Also given that you're only 20, you're going to change a lot in the next few years.

I felt selfish saying that to him since it was a fetish he enjoys and his idea. I feel like maybe I was too sensitive to what was only a roleplay/game to make him cum. He assured me he only called me degrading names out of adoration which I did understand, but it was really upsetting to hear my man who would only refer to me with nicknames to change on a dime and have a slew of names for me that I really did not like.

Everyone has boundaries. You should NEVER feel guilty for not being into something. Dating is about figuring out if you're compatible with someone, and sexual incompatibility is one of the top dealbreakers out tehre.

. Every time I tell him I don’t like it and he’s gotta stop he tells me I’m being too sensitive for a grown man.

This is a huge red flag.

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