I know you’re right. 100%x Currently, the triangulation is a girl who his ex accused of having an inappropriate relationship with, she’s much younger. I cut contact with him end of May, found solid proof the ex lied and started talking again beginning of July.

Since I’ve been back around I haven’t talk or truly cared about his ex or this girl. no jealously. I hung out with the girl & her bf. Apologized to both of them for misjudging them and the situation. I saw how they interacted together, I wasn’t jealous anymore or thought they had anything going on.

He got mad me and her started getting along really good. Made a comment about me “stealing his friend”, started being rude and horrible to me in front of them, making me seem crazy.

Then he started accusing me of “eye fucking” her bf, reason being because of the past accusations against this girl & I’m trying to get him back. When I most definitely did not. So he called her on speaker in front of me and said it to her.

That obv caused them to not want to be around me.

Then I brought something up about her to him weeeeks ago, we both laughed together and got over it. But he ended up telling her and twisting it to me and his ex stalking her social media, making crazy accusations.

I can’t fucking stand it. I stopped the accusations and constant jealously. Every time he tries to triangulate or bring me into meaningless drama I tell him I truly don’t care that I’m done listening/hearing about it.

Every time I move further from the triangulation I think he feels he’s losing control. He’s wondering why I’m no longer jealous, he can’t figure it out and I know it’s killing him not to get a reaction from me.