FYI, I'd be perfectly fine with a relationship/dating that featured inspired sex. The key here is that she views me as a worthy mate.

I've focused a little too much on myself here, sure, but I think for most men the only reason they wouldn't feel the same is because they've either conceded their right to respect and are just aiming to take whatever it is they can or they've taken pro-beta movies and media to heart and think that likability can rival attractiveness in reproductive worth (which humans, and men specifically are wired to be sensitive towards). Pro-beta movies, which by the way, AREN'T being written by the women you are saying to listen to. Why does fucking Judd Apatow have more claim to knowing the secrets of women than any other guy?