How can I put a damper on my libido?

I was this in my 20s, very high libido with a partner who initially matched me but was very frustrating for him sometimes to keep up after several years albeit he got me off with toys...

I’m in my 30s now, and I think I “flattened the curve”, I still have a high libido but not like the me a decade back. I’m not with a partner now, I resort to masturbation and not guilty about such self care.

There’s nothing wrong with you, you have no disorder, we are built differently and because someone has a low libido shouldn’t make us categorised as people with PGAD. You shouldn’t be embarrassed speaking to a doctor if you feel the need to curb that. I was just fortunate to have had someone I could relate too then as there are no support for women like us as you rightly said.

One more thing, the only time I had a low libido was when I was on some kind of family planning pills to alleviate my dysmenorrhea.

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