How can I stop focusing on sex and women?

Like temporarily or permanently?

For temporarily:

Hobbies. Like a real hobby, not some bullshit you made yourself like because your friends kinda dig it, but a real one that you thoroughly enjoy.

A proper basic military training (3+ months usually) can take your mind completely off from sex and women in general. As long as it is men only military type of thing and they won't let you get out. At first you might dream about women. At the end, I promise you, it is least thing in your mind when you will be royally exhausted and just wish it would end. Mental and physical fatigue at its best.

Oestrogen and spironolactone should help.

Some specific anti depressants might work for you since they tend to have a side effect of massively reduced libido. E.g zoloft.

You can use hardcore drugs (I recommend avoiding street garbage and get them from hospital instead - and yes that involves stealing, hospital ones are 2 to 3 times stronger cause of no mix of bullshit). All in all, even street ones are powerful and it is an understatement to say they are better than sex - they are like way better, that is why people get addicted to them. It is artificial manipulation and natural restricted manipulation will always lose to artificial manipulation. Artificial, quite frankly, always wins, so it is not even debatable.

Word of a warning though, if you got a broken brain (shitty brain development as a child, teen - causes can be any kind of trauma really such as rape, abuse, abandonment, losing family member(s) etc...) aka mental addiction is highly likely for you and depending how severe the trauma is the chances of falling for any kind of mental addiction go up exponentially, you are basically fucked for life and because hardcore drugs are strong and your brain won't be able to handle any of them at all, so if you are one of those broken lost souls, then don't do drugs.

For healthy brain people: physical addiction is easy to get rid of, so it is not that big of a problem. But seriously though, if you fall for mental addiction, then you might never return from it, so death is likely. In fact, people with broken developed brains are in danger of getting addicted to everything, even as simple thing as shopping or eating, so basically lost souls seems very accurate to describe fucked up people like that. There is no solution to deal with it other than accept it that you are damaged goods and try to resist life basically. Like I said, fucked.

For permanently:

One solution is an obvious one: castration. There are many methods, some remove it completely, some reduce it, some just make you sterile. Either way have a fun.

Moreover, hormonal therapy can reduce libido as well, so if you want it you can check it out.

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